I never said anyone dislikes you for two words. When I said “why debate with folks that already dislike you,” I was referring to why would trans women try to talk to a TERF. (Feminists who don’t think of trans women as women.) Sorry, perhaps I could have worded that better.
You’re not a jerk for having “no dicks” on your flyer, and I have no doubt you created a wonderful environment for women to play pinball. My whole reason for bringing that one phrase up is to make you aware of a microagression. Intentions can be misunderstood, especially in text. Sorry if I’ve upset you.